receive.

This season naturally brings us into a state of giving.

Admittedly we get a bit wrapped up in finding the perfect presents, even making a list and checking it twice. Giving, in my opinion, is an essential practice to an uplifted state. Not necessarily giving material items, but giving in general. Giving attention, giving time, giving a soft landing place for someone in a hard spot, giving kind words, giving with non-attachment to the outcome, giving with no intention of getting something for your give, giving with an open heart, giving your gifts, giving the smallest, kindest compliments and even giving, by receiving.

On the other side of giving, is the vulnerable practice of being open enough to receive. Having the courage to fully receive is in many ways, an edgier terrain than what it takes to give. Receiving love, compliments, gifts, etc. takes the same sort of presence as giving, but to receive, the walls must come down for moments at a time, giving way to a tender, vulnerable space. To receive fully we are called to unclench the jaws of staying contained and release the safety borders of the heart. Receiving is like taking a chance for the beauty to grow even bigger. It is the opposite of shrinking back. It is the unspoken language of “I am worthy” (to receive). Open hearted receiving allows the giver to give, the gifts to be shared, the love to flow.

If I am honest, receiving isn’t my jam. I get stuck somewhere between, I am not worthy, embarrassment, feeling indebted and generally just uncomfortable. But like most things I write about, I am working on it. I am practicing being a better receiver and fully accepting when I am given. To feel the goodness involved in the giving, as I receive.

Practice receiving well. Be just as generous with your receiving as you are with your giving. It feels good for all.

Merry just before Christmas.

Big love,
Tammy